The Xplicit Truth

Cougar With No Roar

 Dear Xplicit Truth,

      Let me start off by saying I'm loving your post and  your blunt advice. Now here's my situation I'm 56 years old and have been involved with a 26 year old man for the past 5 years. Over the years he and I have a our share of ups,downs, ins, and outs. The most recent demand has me kind of torn on where we stand. I was requested to change my phone in order for us to continue dealing with each other, this was brought on by a confrontation that me and his daughters mother had. He has told me that I'm supposed to be his rock, and what ever he ask for its my job to provide it whether it be money, or a place to sleep, or if he just needs his space. I love this man but I'm unsure at times if he feels the same. Please Xplicit clear up some of this confusion for me.

Confused and Tired 

Dear Confused and Tired,

   I'm confused on why your confused, its only obvious that this man is using you and you are allowing it. Not once in this letter do you refer to him as your man or state that you two were in a relationship, so that shows me that you already know how he feels about you. The key question here is where is your love for yourself? Remove yourself from this situation and love yourself with all that intensity that you are loving this man with.

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The Xpilicit Truth

Dear Xplicit Truth,
 I'm a 21 year old student that is 6 months pregnant with my first child. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years we have been best friends since the age of 11. 7months ago we moved into an apartment with 2 other roommates. Last month the 2 roommates moved out because they were unable to afford to keep living there which has left it up to me and my fiance to try and pay all the bills plus rent.We both are unemployed, our car has been repossessed and as of now the only option we have is to break our lease and move back with his parents in their 2 bedroom apartment that has 4 other people living there already.I'm just at a lost on what to do.

Mom overboard

Dear Mom Overboard,

           Your situation is very complicated and it seems as if your options are limited because your finances are non existing and your expecting a child. Not only will you be entering a living situation where you will be sharing a small living space with 4 other people, In 3 months you will be having a child. My best advice to you is go live with your future in laws and you and your fiance communicate and agree on a set date that you want to be out. Obviously your fiance should be seeking employment and as soon as your available to so should you. I wish I could give you advice that would lift your spirits. I wish you luck and congrats on your new baby.

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